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When Young Women Act Whimsical and Flaky
You may have just started dating that beautiful young woman who made you
laugh with her quirky behavior. She doesn't seem to be that bright when
she acts indecisively when making simple choices. At times, she appears
unstable when she can't articulate her thoughts. Nevertheless, the pretty,
young woman has got your attention, at least for the moment, and so you
continue to date her.
At times, you find your new date's personality either quite irritating,
tiresome or both. The young woman has told you, in so many words, that
she is serious about you. She desires to discover new scenes, try some
fun things--just live a little, but your response has been dismal. You
feel like she is taking you out of your comfort zone of television watching
and doing other things you typically like to do. Welcome to the real world
of dating a younger women, unlike older women who are more settled in
their lifestyles, younger women are still learning and growing. This is
the period in your relationship that a relative or friend tried to warn
you about, "I would leave those young women alone if I were you...they
will wear you out!" So is dating a younger woman what you really
want?
Most younger women could care less about the child support or alimony
you pay to your ex, your retirement goals, or even how tired you are after
putting in a hard day at work. What she wants to know is, "What are
we going to do?" Most younger women want to try new things, most
older men want to sit down and contemplate. For some younger women, they
just broke out of their parent's homes after being caged up like an animal,
so they are all-too excited about being free!
These young women may have graduated from schools that gave them a list
of dos and don'ts and so they go out into the world trying to fit in this
group and that one. Now finally a young woman finds freedom in doing what
she truly wants to do after long workdays. So along comes you, someone
who she envisions having a good time with someone who just might be willing
to explore new things and live life to the fullest.
There are those gleeful women who just want to experience life, and then
are those immature "I don't know what I want to do with my life"
type of women who are sincerely whimsical and flaky. Don't be confused
between the two. Indecisive women are usually saying one thing then doing
another and another until you are so frustrated that you don't have the
slightest clue what their next move is going to be in love, career, spirituality,
family, and more. The emotional woman is angry today and wants to break
up, but then tomorrow she acts as if nothing is wrong. The things that
make her unusual are usually what makes her attractive to most men. She
is more entertaining and interesting than most women you have dated. But
her quirky personality might be too much for you. Don't ask her to change,
because most likely she has no clue what she should change into, but rather
if you can't deal with her personality then consider this, the flaky woman
(no matter how attractive) is simply not right for you.
Face it, some of mature men reading this are not twenty, thirty or even
forty-something anymore. They have lived their youthful lives---been there
done that. But what more do you want to do? Older men who date younger
women must be willing to travel, discover new things, be sexually active,
and enjoy living. If he isn't as thrilled about life as his younger partner,
then the relationship will be difficult for the two.
One of the biggest obstacles in any relationship is when a partner is
expecting/hoping/praying that his or love interest is going to one day
turn into that "something" that she just isn't equipped to be,
such is the case dating the attractive, yet whimsical, flaky woman. It
doesn't matter how she got that way or whether she recognizes or weaknesses
or not, if you can't picture yourself with this person long term, be the
mature one and end the relationship.
Sometimes we make ourselves do things we don't want to do in the hopes
that a person will see that we are unhappy and start making some changes.
However, for some people, it doesn't matter how many hints you drop, arguments
you have, or books you buy to help them be all that they can be, these
headstrong individuals are determined to evolve in this life at their
own pace and not because someone tells them they ought to do this or say
that. This is where a mature man gets into trouble trying to date a young
woman without fully comprehending the pros and cons of dating someone
who still a lot to learn about herself.
Rebellious, quirky women are not easy to date or get along with particularly
if they have had experience dating mature men in the past who only lied,
hurt or abused them. Many of these wounded women already met their share
of older men such as: the busy single professional, the married man who
has been cheating on his wife, and the one who has his share of hormonal
issues. Don't be surprised if some of the young woman's strange behaviors
are a result of being hurt by these men in the past. Whimsical, flaky
women are going to act insecure, ask many questions, and annoy you at
times, because for some, they still have yet to heal from yesteryears'
many offenses.
When you sense that an immature woman is not good with the following:
caring for herself, handling her finances, dealing with others, keeping
a job, parenting, and so on, avoid starting or continuing a romantic relationship
with her especially when you know you are the impatient type. It is only
a matter of time that she will expect something more from you if you should
continue. The young lady will eventually anticipate things from you like:
discussions on how you feel about her and the future, an engagement ring,
a meeting with your family, and thoughtful deeds that make her feel like
the two of you are a pair. If you know that you aren't planning a future
with this woman, then cut off intimate touching and making her feel like
you sincerely want to be with her long term.
If you know you aren't the attentive type, have trouble understanding
young women, and simply don't have the time or desire to hold your beautiful,
whimsical, flaky young woman by the hand and help her through her issues,
then let her know your expectations as soon as possible before things
get too serious.